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- Trivial reasons for breakups
- Fear of entering marriage
- Increasing numbers of divorces
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- God hates divorce. Mal. 2: 14 –
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- God urges permanence. Matt.19: 1 – 9, Mark 10: 1 – 12; Rom.7: 1 - 3
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- He knows the pain and suffering divorce causes people.
- He knows the trouble and wretchedness divorce brings to society.
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- He knows the disgrace divorce brings
to His name.
- He wants only the best for His children.
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- He knows that Satan is the winner in a divorce case.
- God knows that He is able to preserve any marriage if the couple is
willing to work on it.
- He wants the home to be a symbol of heaven.
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- It is a lifelong covenant.
- It is a covenant of exclusiveness.
- It is a covenant to face trials together.
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- It is a covenant of unconditional love. Eph.5:25; Titus 2:4
- It is not only a covenant between husband and wife, but also a covenant
BEFORE God. Mal.2:14
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- Depend on God. Jude 24; Phil.4:13
- See your marriage as a post of responsibility in the kingdom of God.
- 1 Cor.7;12 – 16
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- Establish your marriage on a biblical foundation. Matt. 7:24 -25.
- Build hedges around your marriage.
Prov.4:23, 25 – 27.
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- Pray regularly for your marriage.
James 5: 17,18
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- Make a commitment to sexual faithfulness and exclusiveness. Prov. 5: 3 –
5
- Maintain a sacred circle around your relationship. Gen.2:24; Prov. 12:23
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- Be ready and quick to forgive your spouse’s mistakes. –
Col. 3:13
- Let truth and honesty characterize your communication with your spouse.
- Prov. 8: 7- 9; 12: 19 - 22
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- Engage in
love-building activities. Plan for fun things to do together.
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- God as an integral party Ps.
127:1
- Mutual spiritual support Eccl.
4:9
- Mutual emotional and physical support
- Gal.6:2; Eccl.4:9 – 12.
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- Potential for experiencing the highest form of love, Eph.5:25
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- Opportunity for enjoying the deepest intimacy 1 Cor.7:3 – 5; Songs of Sol.
- Opportunity for partnership with God in creation Gen.1:28
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- Privilege of modeling the heavenly family to the world Isa.43:10,Eph.5:25
- Your home can be a miniature heaven, filled with love , joy, peace and
cheerfulness.
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